For a while I’ve been wondering if I should restart this blog or not. My weird online diary, weird in the sense that diaries are usually private but mine was open for anyone to read. For the most part it was completely candid, I didn’t withhold any information, there had been times where I left details out because I didn’t feel comfortable sharing, but for the most part it was honest. My reasoning for the blog was to raise awareness for Lupus after realising nobody understood or often hadn’t heard of Lupus. I’m not a natural born writer by all means but I throughly enjoyed it and it proved helpful. I could go back to posts and pin point when a new symptom started, when a flare started, when my last flare started, medication changes – the list goes on. There’s a 2 year gap where nothing was recorded and I can’t remember it.
Various life events stopped me writing. One thing happened after another and it wasn’t a priority for me and for once it wasn’t lupus related…crazy I know! I’ll be honest, when life did calm down, I didn’t even think about this blog despite the app being on my phone. It wasn’t part of my life or routine anymore. The wind must have changed directions because recently I have been thinking about my odd little corner of the internet and the more I thought of it I realised I actually miss it. So here I am writing a very overdue post.
If you can’t remember me or have somehow just stumbled across this blog, hi, I’m Emily. I have lupus and a few other auto immune diseases scattered around my body. As a collective I call them Lupus and friends.
Medication
I don’t think medication has changed but I’ll recap in case it has or just in case you’re interested – you’d be surprised how interested chronically unwell people are with each others medication. Do you remember sticker books as a kid? And you’d say to a friend “I have that one!”, it’s a bit like that but with pills…ahh how life changes.
- Mycophenolate this is for Lupus, this is the medicine that suppresses my immune system – in layman terms it essentially makes my immune system really naff so lupus can’t attack my body. It also makes me susceptible to colds, viruses and infections. Out of all immune suppressing medications I have been on – I have been the most stable on Mycophenolate which is ironic because my rheumatologist told me he didn’t think it was effective for lupus.
- Hydroxychloroquine again, this is for lupus. It’s a mouthful so us lupies call it Hydroxy. Fun fact: it’s actually a medication used to treat and prevent malaria but for some reason it helps lupus. I have been on Hydroxy from the day I was diagnosed. It’s typically the first treatment a rheumatologist prescribes and if it doesn’t help immune suppressants might be introduced along side it. It might sound familiar because Donald Trump made national headlines when he believed it would stop people contracting Covid if they took it. It didn’t and it still doesn’t. Really good for Lupus though.
- Apixaban these are blood thinning meds, not for lupus but one of its close friends: Antiphospholipid Syndrome. I have a post on what Antiphospholipid Syndrome is lurking around somewhere, I’ll link it at the bottom of this post. This medication thins my blood to lower my risk of blood clots. It does have the unpleasant side affect of bleeding the equivalent of the River Nile with the smallest cut and it also makes me bruise easily.
- Naproxen for pain. It’s a prescription ibuprofen. I was taken off it for a while because they thought I had a stomach ulcer – I didn’t and I eventually figured out the cause of my gastro issues myself which the doctors agreed was correct. Anyway, they recently put me back on it after some issues with my hip. They really do think ibuprofen will do the Lords work. I don’t rate it myself. I didn’t notice a difference when they took me off it and haven’t noticed a difference being back on it.
- Amitriptyline this both for pain and to help sleep. The dose was recently increased due to the hip pain mentioned above. I think it somewhat helped my sleep but haven’t noticed a huge difference with pain.
- Sertraline usually used for depression but I was put on Sertraline when I was taking steroids because steroids unfortunately completely mess my head up. My GP decided to keep me on Sertraline after the steroid treatment for an existing anxiety problem. Lupus has definitely made my anxiety and occasional periods of low mood worse – I haven’t spoke to a single person with lupus whose mental health has not been affected.
- Ferrous Fumarate usually known simply as iron tablets. Apparently I’m slightly anaemic these days.
- Lanszoprazole this is a medication reduces stomach acid. I take it to protect my stomach from all the meds I take.
- Levothyroxine this is for an under active thyroid. It gives me the hormone my thyroid doesn’t make.
- Propranolol for anxiety. I only take them when I feel anxious.
- Carbomer Eye Gel self explanatory really. I use the eye drops for another disease called Sjogren’s Syndrome – which I’m almost certain is a misdiagnosis. Sjogren’s is a disease that affects the parts of the body that produce fluid. Now the reason I believe this is a misdiagnosis is because the only symptoms I have is dry eyes and mouth and I’m sure lupus can cause both of those symptoms.
When I see it typed out like that it doesn’t seem much but most of the medication is what I call ‘multiples’ because I take multiple of them. Mycophenolate for example is 3 a day.
Symptoms
I remember seeing a video of Selena Gomez cooking and her hands visibly shaking and she apologised for it and stated it was due to her lupus. I sent it to my mum and said I would hate to have that symptom. I think you can guess where this is going. I got the lupus hand shakes. But, it’s not just shakes, oh no…it’s shakes, pain, weakness and swelling. It has quickly became my most hated symptom for one reason: it’s my first visible symptom. Sure, rashes are visible but thankfully for me the facial rash isn’t an everyday symptom for me. The hand issues however are a visible symptom and people have noticed it.
I first noticed it getting my nails done but I thought nothing of it. Then I’d noticed it after preparing food, washing my hair, grooming my dogs, holding my dogs…I noticed that after I did pretty much anything my hands would shake. Tasks that had repetitive movements, like food prep would cause the swelling along with the shakes. Now eating a meal causes them to swell and shake. And I hate it. I hate that people can see it. I hate that slowly this ‘invisible’ disease is uncloaking itself.
I still get headaches. I still have multiple in a week but I’m pretty good at handling them. Well, I’m not sure if I’m actually handling them well or if it’s just such a common occurrence that I’m used to them, if that makes sense.
Hip pain is somewhat new too, I’d say it’s developed within the last couple of years. It mostly happens when I sleep but sometimes it can start for no apparent reason. It’s a difficult pain to describe it’s a bit like an intense ache, an ache that’s so deep it’s almost to the bone. It is only the right hip that is affected.
I still have pain in the usual areas like my shoulders, elbows, wrists and knees…at this point it’s easier to sing the Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes nursery rhyme. I have always said my elbows and knees were the areas that caused the most pain and this is still true but my hands are firmly in this category too. Have you noticed it’s areas of the body that are most used? You can’t avoid moving your elbows, knees or avoid using your hands. That’s what makes living with it that bit harder.
Muscle pain still happens. It usually occurs in my thighs. It’s what I imagine being stabbed feels like. You know when you get a pain and you clench your teeth and breathe in? Yeah that’s the affect lupus muscle pain has.
Fatigue never changes. Somedays it’s severe, I can wake up from a 10 hour nights sleep and go back to sleep for 2+ hours. Somedays I can get through the day without a nap. It varies but it’s always there.
UTI’s in the past year have been the bane of my life. I’ve had so many urine infections. I’d get rid of one and then a month or sometimes even weeks later I’d have another. Back in July my GP referred me for a scan of my kidneys and urinary tract. UTI’s are very common in lupus but lupus also loves to attack a kidney. My GP just wants to rule out if anything else is causing them and if my kidneys are ok. But, I’m yet to receive the scan appointment, I should probably chase that up.
All in all lupus is still a brute and keeps throwing curveballs at me but I reckon I’m still winning.
Life
I have been quite lucky in 2023. My highlight of the year has already happened. I’m a big Harry Styles fan and I was incredibly lucky to get tickets – they were like gold dust. I don’t get to do things like that often with having lupus and experiences like that take a huge toll on me but I’d do it again in a heartbeat.
I also went to see Formula 1 at Silverstone! Who’d have thought that me, who has her nose in a book when Seb watches it, would go see it? Me either. I ended up really enjoying it. Seb has been away a lot with work this year so spending that time with him, watching something he loves was just brilliant and lovely. Like the concert, it took it out of me but it was worth it.
We also went on our annual canal boat holiday which I spent mostly reading! For Christmas 2022 I got a Kindle from Seb and it was like he gave me the gift of reading again. I was struggling to hold books with my hand issues so I hadn’t been reading much and reading is one thing I truly love to do. That was I until I got the Kindle! So I sat there on my camp chair as Seb meandered us down the canal, reading with my dogs around me.
As you can see I’ve had really good year. But I do want to reiterate that the concert, the F1 and the holiday took a toll on me. I don’t want people to think I can do things like that without repercussions from lupus. I pay for it massively afterwards.
I have never seen my ankles and feet be as swollen as they were from the concert.
I was in bed early in pain after the F1 and I was taking pill killers and sitting down through most of it. We took chairs with us for this reason. I’m also very well looked after by Seb, he can get protective of me when it comes to lupus.
I was in bed early most nights on the holiday and also relied heavily on my pain medication.
Everything I do comes with a price but I would rather have the experience of something than not. This year has been unusually busy in terms of doing things, my life is never that exciting – I usually don’t do anything and if I do it’s certainly not the things I’ve done this year.
If you got this far thank you for reading! I really enjoyed writing for my blog again. I’ll definitely be back.
Until next time,
Emily xo
*Link to my post about Antiphospholipid Syndrome.